Taking children to the dentist doesn’t have to be stressful. With preparation, a calm approach, and a supportive dental team, dental visits can become a normal part of your child’s routine.
Positive experiences early in life can help children feel more comfortable with dental care as they grow.
1. When should kids first see a dentist?
Many dental organisations recommend that children have their first dental visit by the time their first tooth appears, or by their first birthday.
Regular check-ups can help to:
- Identify early signs of tooth decay
- Monitor tooth and jaw development
- Provide guidance on brushing and diet
- Help children become familiar with the dental environment
In Bendigo, some children may be eligible for government-supported dental programs, such as the Child Dental Benefits Schedule (CDBS), which may assist with the cost of basic dental services depending on eligibility.
2. Why children’s dental care may be different
Dentists who regularly treat children (including paediatric dentists, oral health therapists, and family dentists experienced with children) may use approaches designed for young patients, including:
- Explaining procedures in age-appropriate language
- Allowing time for children to adjust to the setting
- Using “tell–show–do” techniques
- Supporting anxious, shy, or energetic children
The focus is often on prevention, education, and comfort — helping children feel safe and supported during dental care.
3. Preparing your child for their visit
How a dental visit is introduced at home can influence how a child feels about it.
Helpful strategies may include:
- Using calm, positive language (e.g., “The dentist will count your teeth”)
- Reading children’s books about visiting the dentist
- Playing “dentist” at home using a toothbrush and toy
- Avoiding sharing adult dental fears in front of children
- Keeping explanations simple and reassuring
Normalising dental visits as part of overall health — like visiting a doctor or getting a haircut — can help reduce anxiety.
4. What happens at a typical kids’ check-up?
A routine dental visit for a child may include:
- A gentle introduction and time to get comfortable in the chair
- Checking the teeth, gums, and bite
- A clean and polish if appropriate
- Fluoride application if recommended
- Discussion about brushing, diet, and oral habits (thumb-sucking or dummy use if relevant)
- X-rays if clinically recommended (usually for older children and depending on risk factors)
Your dental clinician should explain what they are doing and encourage children to ask questions, which can help them feel more involved and in control.
5. If your child has decay or needs treatment
Even with good brushing, some children can develop cavities. Risk factors may include:
- Frequent snacking
- Sugary drinks
- Tooth brushing that misses hard-to-reach areas
- Higher natural risk of decay based on tooth shape or enamel quality
If a child requires treatment, the dental team may:
- Explain what’s happening using child-friendly language
- Use numbing gel and local anaesthetic where appropriate
- Allow breaks as needed
- Use behavioural support strategies to reduce distress
In some situations, your dentist may discuss additional options such as nitrous oxide (happy gas) to support anxious children. Suitability depends on your child’s health history and individual needs, and your dentist will explain risks and benefits.
6. Helping kids build healthy habits at home
Daily habits play an important role in preventing decay.
Recommendations may include:
- Brushing twice daily with fluoride toothpaste
- A smear for children under 6
- A pea-sized amount for older children
- Supervising brushing until approximately age 8–9, or until a child can brush effectively
- Limiting sugary foods and drinks, particularly between meals
- Encouraging water as the main drink
- Keeping treats to mealtimes rather than frequent snacking
Your dentist can provide guidance tailored to your child’s age and decay risk.
7. Choosing a dentist for your child
When selecting a dental provider for children, it can be helpful to look for a clinic that:
- Has experience treating children
- Takes time to explain care in a calm, age-appropriate way
- Encourages preventive care and education
- Offers support options for anxious children when appropriate
- Welcomes parent questions and involvement
A positive, supportive approach can help children feel comfortable and build confidence over time.
Important note
This article is general information only and does not replace professional dental advice. Recommendations may vary depending on a child’s age, oral health, and individual needs. If you have concerns about your child’s teeth or oral development, seek advice from a registered dental practitioner.